a picture may be worth a 1000 words, but a bad one is worth a MILLION
So, last night I decided to post pictures of myself. It is really having an adverse effect on me. I feel sad and depressed…I guess I should be glad that I did not take the photos 18 lbs ago. I can’t believe how big I am. I mean there was no denying it once it was in my face. I am pressing on b/c I can continue to work and go down or I will stay where I am in the body I can’t stand to look at. I wish I had never taken the pictures. I was actually feeling good…feel lighter…happy and then I took the photo bam! Fat body in my face
August 17th, 2007 at 9:11 am
Just keep positive. Just think when you reach your goal weight and you look back at the pics just think how good you will feel for your loss. Way to go and keep up the good work.
August 17th, 2007 at 10:03 am
Don’t dwell on it. Also, maybe refrain from looking back on them for another 10 lbs. 18 lbs is a real accomplishment! Also, in case you didn’t know this, you are a very pretty girl. I love the pic with your BF - so happy.
August 17th, 2007 at 10:14 am
No way, you are looking great. If you can tell the difference inside, the outside will soon follow and exceed your expectations. You are brave to do what you did and maybe the rest of us should follow suit, as something we all do together. No shame, just support. 18 lbs is a huge accomplishment and if you aren’t proud of yourself, I am - so there
August 17th, 2007 at 12:17 pm
You may not feel so good looking at the pictures (I never do), but I think you are looking great. Keep it up!!! You will only be more satisifed!
August 17th, 2007 at 1:25 pm
I think you look great. It’s all in your point of reference. : ) But, I understand. I had an “oh dear god that can’t be my body” moment in a dressing room after losing 25. I still feel that way after 50, but it’s getting better. Hang in there. Pictures can be great motivators. You will look back and be proud of your progress.
August 17th, 2007 at 11:54 pm
We are all our own worst critics. You are brave for taking and posting the pictures and you will look back in another 10 lbs and see how much better you look and feel. We all see ourselves differently than others see us and to me you look great, and knowing that you’ve already lost 18lbs is inspiring. I know how great I feel after only having lost 10, 18 is almost double that. Be proud of your accomplishments and stay positive. None of us can change how you feel but you do need to try and think of those pictures in a positive way. You took them as a marker so think of them as that, your starting point and soon you will look back and think “WOW I have accomplished a lot and I am strong and determined!”
Cheer up!